In modern America the home is not the boundary of a woman’s life. There are outside activities aplenty. But even more important is the fact, surely, that what you have learned and can learn will, fit you for the primary task of making homes and whole hum an beings in whom the rational values of freedom, tolerance, charity and free inquiry can take root. First and foremost, to catch him and keep him, don’t call men. Let them call you. Men want what they can’t have, and if you are making yourself readily available, you will be less desirable to a man. Like the old adage says, “Who wants to buy the cow, when he can have the milk for free?” This was the best advice I’ve ever received, and (it’s not as though this is some huge secret) almost no one realizes how effective this technique can be.